Sexual Fetishism
The interest of artists, musicians and writers in sexual fetishism is an ordinary thing, because in what someone calls deviation, an artist will find symbolism. And so it is. Sexual fetishism is when you are aroused by symbols associated with inanimate objects, body parts, physical characteristics, or even social situations such as age differences or social status. But let’s start in order.
1.BDSM
These four rather crude letters contain a whole subculture based on the psychophysiological dominance or subordination of one of the partners. At the same time, it is closely connected with things, which makes this sexual aesthetic close to the concept of fetishism.
In its modern incarnation, BDSM has found a lot of devices, accessories, formed the basis of an independent fashion trend, so it deserves special attention in our selection of fetishes.
We are well aware of the passion of our ancestors for public executions from fiction and historical literature. Physical punishment in public was part of the culture and was considered necessary for complete atonement. The use of force also received a sexual orientation quite early. Sadomasochistic subjects were found in frescoes during the excavations of Pompeii. The most famous and ancient self — help guide of sexual pleasures-the Kama Sutra-calls the tendency to strike blows part of the pleasure of love.
The variety of BDSM culture allows you to unite thrill-seekers of all stripes: from harmless philistines who want to add color to their boring sex life, to outright perverts. In general, nothing is disgusting about this, and the sense of risk in BDSM is illusory, because the main principles of this trend are safety, reasonableness, voluntariness.
Even if you do not feel a tendency to hard pleasures, some stylish BDSM fetishes – a bandage made of chains and belts, leather clothing, collars – should be purchased for your wardrobe.
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Foot fetish
Quentin Tarantino is a notable foot fetishist, and you will understand this perfectly if you look at each of his films. Remember those great scenes from “Death Proof” or ” From Dusk till Dawn ” or “Grindhouse”. Foot fetishism is safe and innocent, but it requires an increased level of hygiene.
The attraction to the feet, mainly female, is because they were previously closed and caused analogies with other inaccessible parts of the body. If it is customary to cover the genitals for moral reasons, then in the case of legs it is simply convenient. It was more difficult to see a woman’s leg under the lush long skirts of noble ladies or in peasant bast shoes than a breast – it’s no wonder that the foot excites the imagination so much. Sexy feet is also a very beautiful part of the female body, so foot fetish is considered the most common fetish today.
As for tactile sensations, the legs, as a rule, are not stimulated much, although the skin on them is very delicate and sensitive. Touching the feet can cause a firework of sensations: from tickling to sexual arousal.
3.Pygmalionism
Pygmalionism or agalmatophilia is a sexual attraction to statues, dolls or mannequins that resemble human beings. The fetishist gets pleasure from touching inanimate human images or from contact with them. The interest in this fetish can be explained by the fact that popular culture popularizes the image of a person with an ideal appearance. This term originates from the myth of Pygmalion, a sculptor who fell in love with a statue he created.
In modern contexts, Pygmalionism can encompass a fascination with and desire for lifelike representations, often leading to emotional or physical attraction to these objects. This phenomenon highlights the complex ways in which human desire can manifest, extending beyond typical interpersonal relationships. Understanding Pygmalionism involves recognizing the unique ways individuals can form attachments and experience affection.
According to intimate goods stores, women most often buy vibrators and lubricants, since one fits well with the other. So if the soul lies to pygmalionism, then do not forget to choose the right lubricant for yourself.
4.Xylophilia
This fetish can not be called inanimate, but it is also not fully animated. We are talking about xylophilia, or simply the love of trees. No, not in an ecological sense, but precisely in the same way as in the story with the rest of the fetishes. Xylophils excite contact with wood. It can be a tree, or it can be a product made of it. Some fetishists prefer certain breeds, and for someone the color of the bark is not fundamental.
No matter how strange it may seem, the sexual attraction to the tree can also be explained. Sometimes the trunks and branches acquire a very bizarre shape, similar to human charms. In addition, the tree will never refuse and will not be offended by jokes about the log.
5.Role-playing fetishes
So we conditionally called a whole group of fetishes, the essence of which lies in the role model. This can include: medical, military, teacher, secretary fetishes. The cover is different, but the essence is the same: a person experiences a vivid sexual attraction only if he sees that his partner is playing himself, for example, a French gendarme during the Revolution, well, or a doctor.
An important role is played by various kinds of attributes that go beyond clothing. For example, if we are talking about a medical fetish, then the game situation “examination by a doctor”, for example, a gynecologist, will go perfectly here. By the way, this is probably the easiest way to play with the world of fetishism – you will not see anything particularly incomprehensible, but you will enrich your sex life with a new experience.
So Are My Fetishes Normal?
Exploring sexual fetishes is safe and normal, contributing to a healthy sex life. Everyone has unique desires and fantasies. Understanding them can enhance intimacy and self-awareness. Open communication between partners is crucial for safe exploration. Discuss boundaries and expectations to ensure comfort and respect. Trust is essential for a safe environment where fantasies are shared without judgment. Consent must be enthusiastic and ongoing throughout any activity. Reaffirm mutual agreement to ensure all actions are acceptable. Prioritizing consent and communication allows safe exploration of fetishes. This deepens connection and enhances sexual experiences. Embrace your desires responsibly and enjoy a fulfilling sex life.
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